Bukannya sirik ya tapi agak terganggu jujur dengan istri2/pacar yang update status spt berikut ini, "Ah percuma nikah/pacaran kalau nonton/pergi/belanja sendiri." Cari suami apa cari temen nonton doang? Cari suami apa cari supir? Cari suami apa cari tukang bawa barang? hehehe... Rasanya ga pas kalau status seperti itu ditulis di FB/timeline line/ status IG maybe... sorry ya kalau ada yang tersindir atau tertabrak, status ini memang untuk Anda...

Cari suami/pacar itu bukan cari pelengkap tapi pendamping hidup saat susah maupun senang, saat sakit atau sehat, saat kaya atau miskin... Artinya siap menghadapi segala sesuatu baik pada saat dia ada atau tidak, saat dia bisa perhatian atau tidak(sibuk kerja)(perhatian mah harussss.....hehehe), saat dia dapat mengantar atau tidak, dsb... Toh waktu single bisa kan sendiri?

orang menikah itu harusnya 2 2 nya sama2 single(utuh) sehingga saling memberi karena jika kita memberi dari kekurangan kita maka pada suatu saat kita akan menuntut untuk dipenuhi...

Mengutip Ps.Juan Mogi minggu lalu, kasih itu memberi dan memberi dan memberi... Menikah itu juga harus dilandasi dengan kasih... Apakah saya adalah istri yang sempurna? Belum.. masih belajar juga apalagi usia pernikahan kami masih tergolong muda... tapi kalau kita bisa membangun healthy relationship saya rasa  benar seperti yang dikotbahkan minggu lalu yaitu fase honeymoon-pengenalan dan penerimaan (mungkin ada konflik dan ketidak senangan disini) lalu kembali ke fase honeymoon dan selamanya honeymoon....

Apa sih fase honeymoon itu? wait on my next post.... hehehe

God knows the best

How do you feel when God said "Wait!"?

As a believer, we thought to be patient on waiting God's promises to be fulfilled in our lives. As a person, our human nature said the opposite. Our dreams to be a parent is not easy. i'm one of PCOS woman, means my ovulation is rarely happen. So it make me really desperate to have a child. But His words remind me constantly to have faith in Him. Maybe this time God wants me to practice my faith. I can easily have faith on material things such as house, car, and any other stuff. But for this one, I become a  person who just become a believer. I have to rely on Him, hope for His mercy and grace to give us a child.

I also believe, to strengthen the other you must through the same kind of problems too. So, If God want to use me as His tools to share His miracles upon my life, I must through the process too. Faith is hoping something that you know it is impossible. Faith goes beyond our mind, our logic, our strength, and our capability to make it comes true.

Maybe some of you will say, nowadays there are so many ways to get a child including IVf. Yes it is true, but when I think about it, I remember about Sarah that one step closer to get a child but She asked Abram to sleep with her maid. We want a child but we want God's miracle instead try our best to get a child.

In the beginning I asked you, how do you feel if God told you to wait? Our feeling must be sad, upset, or maybe even worse we start to hate God.

Hey you over there, If you hate God and start to stand the other side of Him then you have took a silly decision. God is our creator, the one who knows the best for us. If you start to take stand with devil means you lose. Remember, the devil is the the one that thrown away from God. You take stand with it means you are a loser too.

When God asked us to wait means He knows the best for us. Maybe, the road in front of us is a  cliff or the valley of shadows that filled with cries and suffering. Why you choose to jump to the valley of sorrow when you can taste His blessing on the ground you stand now.

For some of you, who felt like you've been fall to the valley, it's not  late yet to ask Him pull you from that place. Be grateful for what you have now and don't let the devil take it from You. Once again, I just want to say God knows the best for our life.